Definition of a good relationship
There’s nothing better than the feeling of being totally head-over-heels in love with someone whom you love unconditionally — except during those brief moments when you imagine the terrifying possibility of someday breaking up. Figuring out how to make a relationship long lasting isn’t easy, but the first step is perceiving that no matter how batty for each other you are, it still takes a lot of work to maintain a healthy and strong relationship. The good news? Sometimes, nourishing your relationship simply means spending time together and trying to understand each other.
“Spending time together means sharing your pleasant or unpleasant experiences together,” Experiencing such things helps you grow as a person, and when you can share those unpleasant experiences with someone— particularly someone who loves doing the small things for you-you grow together. Ultimately it is our meeting and memories that help shape us as a person — when your partner share experiences with you, make sure you are not judging your partner. Try to understand what your partner wants to share.”
If you want to build a good understanding with your life partner, make sure that you and your partner stay together for a long.
Love that lasts is the result of partners setting themselves in each other’s brains in a positive way. Memory circuits get all wound up together so that the other person becomes essential to the very structure of your brain, and you become an integral part of your partner.
Do something astonishing thoughtful and out of the ordinary and try to incorporate an element of surprise to your life partner, like you can insert a loving note into your partner’s pocket. A special dinner over ordinary dinner. A tight hug over hand-shake. A playlist made up with his/her favorite songs. These thoughtful acts will embed you in your life partner’s memory for a long period.
A Relationship is like a home, a shelter against the outside storms. And like any house, it requires a powerful, lasting foundation. To build one, every couple needs to take initiative for such things who can grow your relationship unto the next level.
The truth is that you never know how strong your relationship is until it’s tested many times. All too often, the pressure of a crisis can pull a couple apart.
If you are making efforts to change your partner’s habit, you are in the wrong lane. You have to accept your partner as it is. First, you have to love yourself, then give love to your partner, and it will make sense. You can read our previous article on how to love yourself…
At last, if you really love your partner and want to be with him/her, you should invest some quality time. Spending your precious time with your life partner can make him/her feel special and can boost the level of your relationship.
Author – Rohit Kamboj